Law Of Attraction - It Works

It works, this Law of Attraction stuff.

And it happens quite quickly if you stay consistent and are committed to the process and you must keep believing.

So I started all of this process in January.  I took Mary Morrissey's DreamBuilder Course and now I'm taking it for a second time.  In my opinion, it's like watching a movie or reading a book twice.  You pick up on what you missed the first time the second go around.  

Well, let me tell you a few points of where I was and now where I am.

- worrying about money, not having enough, letting the "lack" of money keep me from doing things

- being average, not doing "great" things, living the same day over and over again

- not knowing what my purpose on this Earth was

- wanting "more" out of life (not material more, just feeling like there must be more to life than this)

I was very grateful, positive and energetic.  I still loved life but was just lacking.

And now, with a shift in my thinking, a believing in myself and a Higher Power (for those who do not believe in God, it doesn't matter, the Power is the same Power that makes nature happen, gravity forces, etc).

- I have started a business that I have had clients for at every step so far

- I am getting in front of people I never would've expected who have access to even more people

- I have met people and been introduced to highly influential people

- I do not let doubts stop my actions

And all of this is only explained by the Law of Attraction, the desire to think differently and adopting a new way of being.

A life coach is helping me and and I still call her when I know I am not in alignment or my thoughts are affecting my desired outcome.

I want this for everybody, especially the people who are struggling.

Invest in yourself - investments always pay themselves back and then some so don't look at it like a cost, but an investment.  I'm glad I did.

Life is bursting open at all seams and I'm ready!!!

Dreambuilding

So I've mentioned on a few recent posts that I'm taking a dream building course and I'm ready to share all aspects of this course and how it's affected my life personally with you. 

This is a universal law I think everybody should know about - everybody should learn about. 

And so I want to teach you, tell you, impact change in your life.

Follow me (on the right of your screen) to receive current updates when the next post comes out.  This will be a weekly blog that will highlight the different aspects of the dream building course.  Feel free to ask questions, comment and share your stories.

It doesn't matter if you believe it or not, it's still working and if you choose not to believe in it than you are truly missing out but if you would like to test this law of attraction, play along for a while.  (I say play, but it's as serious as you want it to be).  

So the first part of the dream building course is to think about what you're thinking about also known as critical thinking.  

Pay attention to the things you say and how you say it.  Because I am actively involved in this course and I've learned it I'm not able to unlearn it and unthink it .

It causes me to pay attention more to the things I am saying and others around me.   I recently talked to a couple of moms who are trying to find a new home and they keep saying I will never find a home in the area that I want to be in for the price I need it to be in. 

And so it is.  And even without knowing too much of what else I'm going to say you can see how this mindset in this way is thinking is hurting their dream. 

So first we have to be brave enough to dream big and so that's what I've done. I've created a dream that I had previously dreamt but had had so many negative thoughts about that I didn't chase them.  Fears, doubts, reasons to stop, letting the "no" stop me, worrying about finances (incoming and outgoing).

So I brought the dream alive and I'm chasing it now and I'm seeing things unfold before my eyes and things come to fruition that never would have happened before.  

So step one is: on a piece (or maybe I should say pieces) of paper write out how you would like to see your ideal life. This does not have to be elaborate or it could be extremely extravagant. 

Be very specific and write it in the present tense.  

I am....    

I have....

Write a few lines for your relationships, health, time/money freedom and your career/creative expression (what gift you share with the world - we all have one or more).

Keep your dream sacred and to yourself.

No dream is too big. If you can think it, you CAN have it. 

Look at somebody else that lives the dream you would like to have (the car, the house, the career, the business, the baby, the food, the........) and know that it is possible because it is being done but that person (don't confuse this with comparing yourself to others). 

Here's the other thing you need to understand:  We are all on the same playing field. The Universe does not treat you any differently from me, it does not withhold gravity from you and give more to me, the sun does not shine hotter on you than it does me (when considering the same geographical location).  It does not withhold your dreams from happening because of who you are.  

So take the next day or so and write down your dream.  

Who's excited?

If you want to take part in this weekly plan please leave a comment and share your story. Let's journey this together.   

Jump!

I was having a bad day a while back and this video Jump by Steve Harvey came across my Facebook feed.

If you haven't seen it, I suggest you watch it.  It is life changing.

So if you feel stuck like you want to change or jump, as Steve Harvey puts it, what is stopping you? 

Is it fear?

Is it not knowing?

Then here is what you do!

Make a list of how you want your life to be and don't let the negative talk influence what you write.  For now, just write your "ideal" life out - and get big...if your ideal life is to own a mansion but you don't know how or have doubts, write it down anyways!

Then do something, anything (even tiny, teeny tiny things) to do something in the direction of what you wrote.

So if you wrote to own a mansion, go walk through a show home.  
And please, please please do not let fear, negative thoughts keep you from doing this action...it is that fear that is keeping you on the cliff or keeping you small.

Jump!

Taken from https://transparentwithmyself.wordpress.com

Living a FULL 75 years PLUS!

One of the things I've heard in 2015 really resonates with me and it caused me to do a lot of thinking near the end of 2015 and as 2016 starts. 

That's saying is...

I asked myself the question what am I doing to live a full 90 (or 75) years or am I living the same year over and over again? 

I've come to the conclusion that up until now there have been some slight fluctuations year-to-year but overall my life lacks purpose and accomplishment. 

Then I think what could I do differently this year than what I've done years before and the biggest answer is achieve goals but not just achieve goals set bigger goals set the expectation higher. 

As Robin Sharma says don't compare yourself to the other guy.  Compare yourself today to yourself yesterday do something better and bigger today than you did yesterday.

And so far this year I have been doing that.  I can't wait to share with you how my life has changed the past 8 weeks.

Do you feel like I did in 2015?  

Every Single Day You Make a Choice

Everyday, the bus called Life picks us up in the morning, and we choose where we wish to sit that day!

Many people believe they have to accept what life dishes them but we make conscious decisions throughout our day.

I've heard so many negatives about the economy lately, but I was reminded a few days ago, that circumstances are circumstances; they are not bad or good, they just are!  Our perception of those circumstances is what makes them bad or good.

There will always be opportunities.  As a matter of fact, the slower economy means people lose their job.  That is a fact.  Many great new companies are started in the slump of an economy because people are at their rock bottom and can only do better by doing anything.

So make a choice to look at things positively. 

Make a choice to see what could be good in the world.

Changed the Title of My Blog

I just watched a video this morning that is worth watching by Robin Sharma.

At one point in the video, I paused the video, came to this blog and changed my blog title.

My blog title used to read, "My Journey to More, Just an Average Gal".

Now when we are affirming things in our life, we have to carefully pick the language we use.

So you'll pick up on this right away - "just" and "average" gal.   Two of those words are not what I want for my life.

I want to be more than JUST!   I want to be World-Class, not AVERAGE.

So please excuse the change, I am building BETTER!

Timing Is Everything

Today I had a little glitch in the system. A little tiff in a close relationship of mine sent me to my basement to really work out a good vision/dream. Usually moments like that would stop most people in their tracks and get discouraged. And until just recently, the same would've been true for me. But this time, it was a motivator to work on my dream even harder and just spend some dedicated time on it. 

You see, even though I have homework or should I say life work every week for my life coach, I still procrastinate. But I'm at that point, and I tear up as I write this, where I know change is completely necessary for my happiness and that thought pushes me.  

If you are struggling and you feel that change is just too hard, do not give up. That's what your ego wants you to do. I know it sounds ass backwards but it's not. 

You deserve better. I deserve better.